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I love someone alot and sometimes i think hes the only one for me and ill never find another guy like him ...weve never gone out but at one time we both liked each other we like live 20 mintuets away from each other so it was kinda hard to have a relationship at the time but now i really think hes the one and i was talking to his friend who is like my best friend too and he tol dme that the guy i like masturbates and stuff all the time and uses me! im like okay whats up with that? but he had to go so i left it at that but i need help what should i do because i love him but he wants to masturbate ew!